Archive for the 'Narcissism' Category

Aug 11 2008

Have a narcissist magnet? Read Emotional Vampires: Dealing with people who drain you dry, by Albert J.Bernstein, Ph.D

Do you wonder if you have a magnet that attracts people who only want to take from you and drain you dry?

If so, you should read Albert Bernstein’s book, Emotional Vampires… so you can learn to spot a narcissist quickly. Here are some of the characteristics to look for in emotional vampires…

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Jul 07 2008

What are the characteristics of a Cult?

Cults…I talk a lot about the YFZ Ranch and the FLDS, but what are some of the characteristics of a cult?

  • mind control…use of bizarre religious or secular ideas to enforce the obedience of followers
  • emotional disclosure…participants are encouraged to disclose private, emotionally important information…while the leaders do not share emotional information with the larger group
  • recruitment…participants are encouraged/expected to go out and recruit others to join the cult organization using deceptive and manipulative tactics
  • restriction from all outside ideas and influences ( no radio, television, computer/internet, newspapers)
  • Claims that the outside world is evil and will lead to the death or damnation of anyone who betrays the cult
  • Participants are manipulated to believe that they can not survive without all the cult offers them
  • leaders are a few men who directly benefit from the cult by abuse, manipulation, threat of harm, sexual control of women and intricate financial arrangements

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Apr 16 2008

How can you tell you are not as smart as you think?

Published by Bill Martin, LCSW under Narcissism

Glenn Reynolds, a law professor at the University of Tennessee and writer, tells a story of Alan Dershowitz trying to act like the smartest person in the courtroom, and thus proving he was not.

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Apr 01 2008

Emotional vampires…narcissists at work

Narcissistic people are like emotional vampires because if you get too involved with them, they leave you feeling emotionally drained and burned out. How to spot an emotional vampire….
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Apr 01 2008

Are your colleagues at work (especially your boss) narcissists?

If you feel exhausted and burned out dealing with your colleagues at work, (or anywhere) then it is likely they are narcissists or have those self focused qualities. Here are some questions to help you evaluate your situation:

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Mar 31 2008

The myth of Narcissus

Narcissus was the young man in Greek mythology who was doomed to die worshipping his own reflection in a pool, even though men and women loved him intensely.
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Mar 31 2008

Narcissism…have you fallen in love with someone who loves themselves more?

Freud gave us the term Narcissism to describe those people who tend to have little insight about the impact of their selfish, self-absorbed, and dominating behavior on others.

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