Jan 25 2008
Being far away from family helping you avoid serious problems?
Geographic solutions…it seems like a good idea, but moving to avoid serious family problems does not work that well…
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Archive for January, 2008
Jan 23 2008
Help your marriage: Slow down, tone down, and listen from your heart
Couples often are skeptical about their ability to slow down and listen to each other. They look at me with extreme doubt, as if to say, “really, who listens to their partner and then says, “…so what I hear you saying is….” Continue Reading »
Jan 20 2008
What happens in the beginning of couples therapy?
A lot happens in the very beginning of couples therapy. I ask questions about why the couple is consulting with me, explain how I typically work, and then get started with the problem solving process. Most couples want to start with improving the way they communicate…
Jan 19 2008
Infant abuse, did you know…
More children are physically abused and die from that abuse during their first year of life than any other one year period of their lives.
In fact, about 42% of all deaths from child abuse occurred among children less than 1 year old in 1996.
Check out the National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect.
Jan 19 2008
Chicago men…want to help your marriage? Validate your wife’s feelings…
Ever wish your wife was not so emotional or get defensive when she accuses you of not caring enough for her, family or family responsibilities?
Jan 15 2008
Visitation after divorce
Fighting about visitation can be a way parents express anger at the other parent and continue the battles that led to divorce.
Jan 14 2008
Dr. Phil, ethics, dual relationships and confidentiality: It’s a hollywood thing
Dr. Phil seems to be treading on ethical “thin ice.” The news recently described how a famous person’s family felt betrayed after asking him for help…
Jan 11 2008
Crisis: An opportunity for growth and change in our lives
A crisis is a time when we face a situation of danger and opportunity occurring at the same time…
Jan 11 2008
Facing a divorce and need to develop a visitation plan?
Creating and implementing a visitation plan can be one of the most challenging parts of the divorce process. Here is an online resource produced in Arizona (Chicago, Illinois says thanks!) for divorcing parents.
Jan 10 2008
Crying, it’s a good thing: How Hillary Clinton won New Hampshire
Hillary just won the New Hampshire democratic primary. My daughter and I watched the telecast of her getting emotional when a warm-hearted woman asked her, “how are you doing?”…
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